Strategy
The Projector strategy is to wait for the invitation. To wait for recognition. To wait for life to bring something specifically, formally, inviting to you.
It is about seeing, not performing.
“You cannot afford to enter into anything in the moment.” Ra said it more than once.
Just observe . do not perform
Layer one . wait
You are not here to put your shoulder to the wheel. You are not here to push, initiate, or chase. Yur aura is focused. Your aura is penetrating. Your aura is here to provoke invitations.
If you initiate, you bypass the only mechanism that ensures the other actually wants what you have to offer. And then you spend the rest of the encounter wondering why nothing landed - in bitterness.
So we wait. And while we wait, we live our lives. We master systems, whatever the system is, and we let the aura do the talking.
“And if you’re a mental projector and you’re logging in flight time in this extraordinary mind that’s capable in all of its glory of arriving at truth and it’s radiating out through your aura and you’re not initiating and you’re not generating and you’re just in the world as a projector. You think somebody’s not going to ask you for that.”
Layer two . the experiential process
This is where we are different from every other Projector. The Splenic Projector can drop in right away. The Ego Projector can go by will. The Self-Projected Projector can speak it out alone and knows. We cannot.
What we can do is take the offer and "talk" it through. We talk it out with different people, on different days, until we hear what we actually think. Ra called it an experiential process.
The decision is not in the listener. It is in our own capacity to observe and listen to what we say, finally hearing what's our truth.
“My advice to Mental Projectors has always been the same. You cannot afford to enter into anything in the moment. You have to go through an experiential process, whether that experiential process takes a couple of hours or a couple of days.”
In practice
01
Buy time.
"Let me think about it. I will get back to you." That sentence is your friend. Always.
02
Some different auras.
Talk the offer out with at least three different people. Different Types ideally. Not for advice. To hear yourself.
03
Listen for the sentence.
Over those conversations, you will hear yourself saying the same things from different perspectives. And in one moment it will just make "click".
The freedom
This is the part nobody tells you about Projector Strategy. The invitation is not a contract. It is a request.
The whole point of waiting was so that the choice could come back to you. So when it does, the choice is yours. Including no.
And no is good too. No is clean. No is honest. The bitterness does not come from saying no. The bitterness mostly comes from saying yes when you should have said no, because you were afraid the next invitation would not come.
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